How does “Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge” suggest responding to a girl who is always busy?
In Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge, when dealing with a girl who says she’s always busy, the authors suggest that you avoid taking it personally or reacting negatively. Instead, they recommend keeping your responses light, playful, and non-needy, which helps maintain a sense of fun and attraction without coming across as desperate or frustrated.
Here are some strategies the book suggests:
- Playful Responses: Instead of sounding disappointed or frustrated when she says she’s busy, respond in a playful way. For example, you might say something like, “Saving the world again, I see! I’ll pencil you in when you’re free.” This shows that you’re not emotionally affected by her busyness and can keep things lighthearted.
- Avoid Pressuring Her: Don’t keep pushing for plans or ask her repeatedly about when she’ll be free. That can come off as needy or overly invested. The key is to give her space without losing your confidence.
- Create Curiosity: Instead of simply asking when she’ll be free, the authors suggest making her curious about what you’re up to or what she’s missing out on by being busy. For instance, you could mention something intriguing you’re doing without fully explaining it, like “Too bad you’re missing out, I just found the coolest spot in town.” This approach can build intrigue and make her more interested in finding time for you.
- Match Her Energy: If she’s truly busy, acknowledge it, but match her level of investment. If she’s offering very little time, you should respond with equally low-key engagement instead of over-investing.
By following these principles, you maintain an air of confidence and mystery, which can make her more intrigued and interested in finding time for you.
