How does “Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge” address the issue of being too available over text?
In Magnetic Messaging, Bobby Rio and Rob Judge address the issue of being “too available” over text by encouraging strategic, selective responses. They emphasize that constantly replying right away can make someone seem overly eager or predictable, which can diminish attraction. Here are key strategies they recommend:
- Pacing Responses: They advise spacing out responses and sometimes delaying replies to create a sense of mystery and avoid appearing too eager.
- Balancing Availability with Interest: Rather than always responding immediately, they suggest varying response times to make interactions more dynamic and engaging, which keeps the other person curious and more invested in the conversation.
- Using Intriguing, Short Messages: Rather than long, overly detailed texts, they recommend brief, intriguing messages that require less commitment and make it easier to step away from the conversation.
- Avoiding “Just Checking In” Messages: They caution against sending texts that don’t add value or are sent purely to maintain contact. Instead, they suggest focusing on purposeful messages that build anticipation for a future meet-up or create excitement.
These strategies aim to maintain a balanced level of engagement that fosters attraction without making someone seem overly available or clingy.
