What are the “Texting Mistakes” that kill attraction according to “Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge”?
In Magnetic Messaging, Bobby Rio and Rob Judge outline several common “texting mistakes” that can quickly kill attraction. These mistakes often stem from overly eager or insecure behaviors and can make someone appear less attractive or confident. Here are some key mistakes they highlight:
- Over-Texting: Sending too many messages, especially without receiving a reply, can come off as needy and desperate. Over-texting can make someone appear overly invested, diminishing the sense of mystery and intrigue.
- Boring, Generic Messages: Using bland, predictable texts like “Hey” or “What’s up?” fails to engage or stand out. They suggest creating intrigue or sparking curiosity with more creative and unique messages.
- Being Too Available: Responding immediately or always being ready to text back can make someone seem overly accessible, reducing the excitement and anticipation that builds attraction.
- Getting Too Serious Too Soon: Texting with too much intensity or sharing deep personal details early on can feel overwhelming. They advise keeping things light, fun, and flirtatious in the early stages.
- Overusing Emojis and Exclamation Marks: While a few can add flavor, overloading texts with emojis or excessive punctuation can come across as trying too hard to be liked.
- Seeking Reassurance: Sending messages that seek validation, like “Do you still like me?” or “Was that okay?” can convey insecurity, which can be unattractive.
- Being Predictable: If every text follows a set pattern or schedule, it removes the element of surprise. They suggest varying timing, content, and style to keep conversations fresh and engaging.
By avoiding these mistakes, Magnetic Messaging encourages users to maintain a confident, playful approach that keeps the recipient intrigued and eager to continue the conversation.
